How To Take things Forward?

Hey as I mentioned earlier in this book, to get a beautiful girlfriend fast, you must ACT. You approached a woman successfully and conversed well with her. Now what? You have to take things forward.

  In this step, you will learn how to take things to next level, such as get phone numbers, building attraction and getting physical with her.

   How to get phone numbers from a woman?

Understand what a woman means: Getting a beautiful woman should be simple.

Here is how it should go :

You approach a woman with a conversation starters or a silly pick-up line.

You talked to her for 5 to 10 minutes.

You asked her for the phone number and she gave you her number.

You spoke with her over the phone, set up the date, then so on.

It is effortless, right. The fact, however, is things with women are more complicated than a man could assume. That is why you have to understand what she means rather than what she says.

When a woman is not interested in you--in case you already tried asking a woman for her phone number - many things, she will say.

It is okay to get these responses. Understand a woman's intentions. Some of the most common statements are--

• Let me get your number instead, or why don't you give me your number? (What she means--gives me your number so that you think that I will call you, I will not, which is a defense mechanism or trick a woman develops to filter the men she did not like or trust.)

She gave you her number and took your number as well.

(Sometimes, what she means--when a woman gives her number and takes your number to make sure to filter you so that she does not answer your call.)

She gave you a fake number. (What she means -- instead of she says NO on the face, as it could hurt your ego--she gave a fake number and politely excused from the situation.)

Why do you want my phone number? Why do you men approach women and ask for their numbers ( What she means is that she does not like you.  I do not see anything worth giving my phone number to you--you did not converse well)

• I do not like to give my number to strangers/I do not give my number to men at pubs/clubs. (What she means --I do not trust you).

Imagine if a woman's favorite celebrity asks her for the phone number. What does she do? 

She would have given him-her cell number, alternate number--so that she could attend his call at any cost and would take his number as well.

 Most men give much importance to these responses--treat them as rejection from a woman. There are many reasons why a woman did that to you. I will let you know them later. Now if you are getting responses like these from any woman, you should walk away.

A woman who is interested in you will respond like below.

• You : So what is your phone/whats app number?

• She : My whatsapp/phone number is 9896895968

• You: Great, it was great talking to you, have a great time.

• She : Oh, it was a pleasure talking to you. Have a great time with a smile.

It is That Simple! A woman who likes you will not hesitate to give you her phone number. The point is if a woman gives you her phone number with no hesitation, she is interested in you. If she does anything other than that, then forget about it.

Here is when she gives her number. 

Now let me ask you a question, "why should a woman give her phone number?" Have you ever asked this question to yourself? I asked myself--after spending years of time and countless experiences--and finally got aha moments!

A woman gives you her number only:

• When you build trust with her.

• When you make her curious about you--she wants to know you more.

• When you make her emotionally invested.

• When she feels you as high status or high-value man

• When you make her respect for what you are.

If a woman gave you a fake number, she has no interest in you, and the game is over, Then you might be wondering why she should give me a "Fake number" If she is not interested? She should have said that she is not interested.

She gave you the fake number because she does not want to hurt you in front of a group; that is whys she gave a fake number.

If a woman gives you her correct number, she has the intention to see you again. Now you have to Take It Forward.

Congratulations! You got the phone number. Now it depends on you how to take things ahead. 

Most men are chasing a woman only to collect her phone number rather than connecting with her.